You are successful - Dr. Diva Verdun, Empowerment Coach, Spiritual Practitioner & counselor

Becoming Success-FULL

We all want success in our lives. However, success is truly relative to how you see it.  We put false ideas in our head as to what success really is and then discount what we have already achieved.  We are so busy living in the fears of the future or the pain of our past that we do not enjoy the wonder of the present moments.

Do not ask for love unless you’re ready to be healed enough to give and receive love.
Do not ask for joy unless you’re ready to feel and release your pain, so you can feel joy.
Do not ask for success unless you’re ready to conquer the behaviors, that would sabotage success.
~Melody Beattie

When we break success down into smaller parts we find that success itself is achieved in small steps. When we have come to a point that we are obsessed with our thoughts to achieve success, but refuse to change our beliefs and negative tapes we can never achieve the success we are dreaming of experiencing. We overlook the small achievements that bring wonder and delight regarding our own POWER, like breathing.  We are successfully living L.I.F.E. each and everyday just because our heart is beating and our lungs function to draw air.

If we could just slow down and look at things that we so quickly discount in our lives that create tremendous success in our experience on a daily basis we can come into the full awareness of our own POWER.  We see task like the miracle of being able to stand and walk on two legs as an accomplishment that allows us to walk and move forward.  To sit and ponder small miracles from the heart beating and the lungs functioning to our ambulatory skills gives us the power to still our minds and realize that the simple activities that we accomplish everyday ARE our success.  You are successful - Dr. Diva Verdun, Empowerment Coach, Spiritual Practitioner & counselor

The problem here is that we have allowed the world to dictate to us what success looks like in our experience and we are now striving to be something over enjoying that which we already are.  We have to change our thoughts about who we are now so that we can continue to grow into the person we were already born to become.

All that we are working towards as we are attempting to be success-FULL will come to pass if we simply relax and allow ourselves to be that which we already are.  This is when we come to know we are already success-FULL in the task we do on a daily basis and realize that each and everyday adds to the accumulation of growing into the fullness we were born to become.

Sometimes we have to realize that we are obsessing on becoming something that may not be our path, or that we are rushing ourselves into a direction that we are not quite ready to handle because we have not achieved enough of the daily successes to grow into the accumulation and the manifestation of success we are.  It is like planting a seed and expecting the seed to produce a plant tomorrow and then being upset because you think you wasted the effort.

Through our daily successes, the heart beat, the lungs functioning and moving through our things to do list we become aware of what we need or desire as well and we begin to learn the skills necessary to grow into that which we were born to be.  We also begin to realize the negative beliefs and thoughts that have kept us grounded and stagnant in fear of the future and overwhelmed with the pains and sorrows and disappointments of yesterday.  We begin to realize we have to re-program ourselves so that these beliefs no longer interfere with the necessary nurturing or nourishing that we must consistently do to see the good in all our experiences.

We then begin to unwind the sabotaging programs that we have leaned on since childhood that need to be released so we can move naturally into the flow of L.I.F.E., which is success in itself.  All we seek is in this natural flow of Divine Order. As we continue to make adjustments in our thoughts, we come into the alignment with L.I.F.E. and see ourselves gracefully and easily moving through the small steps that add up each day that will bring us into the fullness of who we are without feeling pressured by the world to be “success-FULL”.

We are already a success in all we do everyday, even in our mistakes.  We have successfully made the mistake and we have successfully figured out the solution for it as well.  These are the small successes that add up to growing up into that which you are.

We become fully engaged in the process of letting L.I.F.E. BE and we allow ourselves to enjoy each and every moment knowing that as we do we are releasing old programs that hold us back from moving freely into the flow of L.I.F.E. itself, which holds for us all the success we can muster in each and every moment.

Our good is NOW! It is happening to us in each and every moment even when it feels like it may not be.  Painful experiences and grief are an ending that bring forth new beginnings.  They are part of the success of moving forward.  When we allow ourselves to see each breathe as our success, everything else seems easy and we move freely into the experience we dream.

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