We have so many confused notions about love that we are not truly aware of the reality that we are actually LOVE BEING! We are created in and of a wonderful and electric energy that is simply PURE LOVE. What we feel as a void of the Presence of Love can never be true because LOVE IS A SYNONYM FOR GOD. We can never be without LOVE, nor can it ever leave us because we are LOVE(GOD) ITSELF in human expression. Thus, contrary to what we may have come to believe, love is not a behavior or emotion, it is a Constant in the Universe and therefore a state of BEING.
Because we are living a human experience we have a tool box of emotional states that guides us into higher levels of awareness when we know how to use our tools to construct and build the lives we want from the blueprint that we have deep within us, which are our dreams. In understanding more about LOVE we come into the awareness that we have many confused notions about what it means to be loved or cared about, because we have been exposed to people who have discrepancies in what they say and do in the name of loving us.
Issues suffered in childhood or through bad relationships may have set a precedent for you to come into the negative understanding of love as you experienced abandonment, neglect and even abuse. These confused notions set the tone for the feelings “I love you, but don’t want you”, which continues to play havoc with your emotions and feelings, but these have nothing to do with LOVE. They have to do with our attachment and design we have been taught to recognize as love. Thus, this begins to set a negative cycle or pattern for the roller coaster ride experience that we label as love.
Living in emotionally sterile environments, where people say they love you and have no feelings or provide no nurturing reinforces negative patterns of what love is not. It is not a cycle of up and down cycles of being mistreated in one moment while waiting for love and respect in the next. It is not a cycle of codependency measures that continue to impede on your happiness while you work to assure the happiness of others.
LOVE is a Constant in the Universe and it is a very strong and innate POWER that you must come to fully understand. You begin the process of fully embracing LOVE when you fully embrace who you are and begin seeing yourself as a positive force in the Universe because of the mere fact that you were created in this Energy. LOVE is way more than words, evidenced by feelings that the words “I LOVE YOU” are not enough for those that are immersed in the deepest romantic emotions. However, once the romantic fantasy is eroded away by time, the feelings and emotions of romantic relationships are left to be dealt with and the true discovery of love will begin.
True love is love of self first. This is not a selfish, ego-centered love. It is a deep confidence and knowing that you are the POWER of LOVE itself and that in this POWERful energy you have your full BEING. True LOVE is the full knowing that you are more than actual words can express and that through the energy of LOVE you empower yourself to create all that you desire in your experience including romantic relationships.
True love is fully about your relationship with self, which in turn brings about the full measure of wonderful, healthy and loving relationships with others. The value that you seek can never be bestowed on you by others, it is a knowing that you have value before you ever enter any relationship. The romantic relationship you desire begins with you. Can you say “I Love You” to yourself and fully mean it? Can you look in the mirror and appreciate who you are as the POWER of God in human flesh? Can you look into the mirror and tell yourself “I am LOVE and I consistently generate LOVE”? It is not narcissistic or ego-centric. It is affirming who you are as a LOVE BEING! It is knowing that you can never lack LOVE. It is knowing that you are capable of redefining what you have learned LOVE was and growing into knowing what LOVE is. YOU!
Remember, LOVE is more than words! LOVE is YOU!