There is so much more in the world to experience because the world is so vast and filled with tremendous opportunities. The more we absorb the more we grow. The more we discover and explore, the more aware we become. Unfortunately, we get so stuck on having certain things in our experience that we throw all the other wonderful levels of discovery and opportunity away while we settle and wait for an experience that may never turn into the fruitful experience we dream of it becoming.
We wait for the right job, the right house, the right car, the right money to make certain decisions. We wait for the right person to come into our experience or for the person we are with to change to become the person we want them to be. We continue to settle for less, while waiting for more. The problem with settling is that the very thing we are waiting for cannot manifest into more because it is all it is ever going to be. It is what you settled for, not what you really truly desire.
What you settle for is never the best that is available. You cannot make more out of it because it was the best available in the settlement pool. Thus, it is already at its best It can never be better. You simply settled for the best of less because you were either impatient or in fear of waiting for your higher good so you took what you thought your good should look like. In essence, what you settled for is truly all you feel you actually deserve.
Unfortunately, when you settle for less it comes with mental anguish and pain because you are attempting to force it to be what you want it to be, or you are overly disappointed it is not and feel you have no choice but to accept what you have. In some instances you stay with what you settle for because you want to save face with friends and family. This generates a huge burden to prove to yourself and others that the decision you made to settle was the best decision for you as you attempt to control the situation and the people involved in your favor.
What you settle for comes with a huge lesson that is designed to make you uncomfortable for settling for less than what you deserve. It is designed to teach you so that you won’t settle for less in the future through the pain you experience in the process of living with what you have settled for. But it takes courage to step-up and release what you settled for, to allow what you truly dream of to manifest in your L.I.F.E.
It is scary to sit back and realize that while you were dreaming of more you settled for less because that is what you truly believe deep down within yourself that you deserve. It is hard to face that you have actually put yourself in lack and are experiencing the pain of the trial because you literally don’t feel you deserve better.
The truth of not having more is in not believing you can attain more. To dream of having more and being more is one thing, but you must BELIEVE in your Heart that you deserve more and know that it will manifest in your experience as exactly what you see. You will will then see you are not really settling for less, you are manifesting less because it is what you believe. What is called settling for less is actually acceptance of less because you only feel you deserve that much and nothing more.
You prolong your success, and the love you want in your L.I.F.E. because deep down you don’t believe you are worthy or capable of having anything better than what you have already gotten. By digging deep within to find your true beliefs and fears you align with the Universe, which then can begin to make ways for you out of no way. It begins to curve all things to mold them in your favor to design the perfect manifestation of your desires, just for you.
When you settle for less, it is because that is all you truly believe you can reach for. It is all you believe you deserve. It may even be your ego telling you that you can fix the situations, and the people by controlling and molding them in your favor so that you will have what you want on the other side. Unfortunately, we do not manifest what we dream by forceful will. We manifest what we dream through a process of Belief, Trust and Release. It is always done unto us as we believe.
As you begin to sort through your experiences you will find that somewhere in the depth of your own psyche there is a weak link that says to you, “No I don’t quite believe it is for me yet”. You have to find those places deep within you that you don’t quite believe you deserve what what you desire and stamp out all the areas that say “no I can’t get it”, “No I’m not worthy”, “no they won’t love me”, “no everyone is alike”, “no I am to ugly”, “no I am not educated enough”, no no no no… Enough with the nos.
You have to get rid of all disbelief at the deepest level of your BEING. Once you do, you are ready to receive all that you desire and the Universe begins to conspire with you to manifest the exact and perfect measure of that which you believe is yours.