Expectancy is our natural nature. However, like everything else, without boundaries expectancy can run a muck as people will naturally expect you to cave into their wishes and demands to met their own needs. Worse, you may find yourself giving more than your share when trapped by a false expectant belief that doing more for someone will bring forth what you expect from them as well.
This has nothing to do with sharing and caring. It has nothing to do with believing and supporting others. It has to do with allowing our natural expectant reflexes to be driven by fear and codependency. Natural expectancy is a knowing that all will work according to the riches and glory of the Divine God that lives within you. Fearful expectancy is a need to have certain people fulfill certain elements of your L.I.F.E.™
When you are operating in a fearful state, you place undue demands on others to fulfill your needs. You expect love and demand it be given a certain way. You expect financial security and demand that it be given in a certain way. You expect others to take care of you and meet your needs and demand it be given in a certain way. This is driven by fear that you will not have what you need, from love to finances and everything else in between.
The natural state of expectancy is grounded in Spirit. It is steadfast in your faith that Spirit will always, always come through for you no matter how dark things may seem to be. It is a fearless POWER that comes from within that motivates you to step up into your own BEING and step out into L.I.F.E.™ to take the necessary risk. In turn your faith and courage allows Spirit to prove you this day that a blessing will be poured out so rich and so full that you would not have room enough to contain it.
Expectancy is not a burden that we are to place on others, making them feel guilty for not taking care of us. It is not a burden we put on ourselves either by making ourselves feel responsible for taking care of another person. In the natural state all is taken care of as we begin to take care of ourselves from a spiritual standpoint and know that every single element of our lives is fulfilled in accordance with the promise of an abundant L.I.F.E.™
As you set boundaries and allow natural expectancy of Spirit to be the higher authority in your experience, you find all you want and wish to obtain begins to flow to you freely in the natural order of things as you begin to mature into the awareness of your full POWER.
Look to where your help truly comes from. Know that it always comes from the Source of all Good, which is God. It can materialize through the hands of any person. There is no need to single out a particular person and demand what you feel you need from that person in any form.
As you relax and allow Spirit to manifest what you truly desire from love to finance and everything in between, the person that comes forth with the materialization of that which you request, will do so naturally and neither you nor the other party will feel a requirement or demand. You simply will be moving in the perfect order of the Divine as that which you both desire is manifest in mutual benefit of the highest and greatest good of all.
Here’s To L.I.F.E.!™ **
** L.I.F.E.™ is a trademarked acronym by Rev. Dr. Diva Verdun, which stands for Living In Full Expectancy… of your highest and greatest good.