We are all naturally intuitive. When we sense that things are OK, they generally are. When we sense they are not, they generally are not. Why is that when we intuitively sense something is not right in a relationship we ignore the red flags hoping we can change the other person or the situation. We allow it to continue forward thinking we can control the outcome as the issue continues to escalate and the red flag gives over to a big red stop sign.
But somehow we still feel we can control, fix, or change it and we continue forward until we are totally out of orbit. Now we have gotten ourselves into a real issue because we did not heed the warnings that we intuitively knew were leading us directly to the outcome that came about.
“It doesn’t matter if they’re hurting themselves. It doesn’t matter that we could…
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