Living in a shame based society makes it difficult to think positively first. Our first thought is a comparison to what others are doing mixed with our fears of what they may be thinking about us. Everything we think seems to be rooted in some negative thought or negative energy from the beginning. In many cases we don’t even offer a full complement without some form of judgment or mental diagnosis before we actually begin to speak because we have been taught to over analyze everything through a negative filter before we begin to process any thoughts. This is not the natural order. Our minds are not naturally programmed with negative energy and judgment. We have learned to process our thoughts this way as a type of protection filter, learned from childhood and reenforced as adults through our own negative experiences and the hurt, shame and guilt we carry.
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